Hello everyone! I hope you're all having a lovely day before the weekend begins. I wanted to share something that I am really excited about! I haven't been able to tell anyone who understands quite yet so here I am.
I've been practicing (not sure if this is the current climate term but if not my apologies) poly for the last 7 years. During this time I have had numerous different partners, but I never had more than one official serious partner at a time.
I recently asked someone I'd been seeing on a casual basis if they would be comfortable with being my partner, as we have been spending more and more time together and things have shifted from a casual thing to a more serious one. He said yes he would be happy to be my partner, and even recently invited me out with him and his wife so I could meet her.
So I now have two partners at once! Which isn't like, a huge deal, I understand but it really feels incredible when multiple people are into you and willing to make things work like scheduling and spending time and all that fun stuff.
The main thing that I am over the moon about is that my other partner who I have been with for about 2 years now is coming down this weekend to visit. New partner asked if they could see me this weekend, to which I reminded him that my other partner was coming down for the weekend. I told him he is more than welcome to meet up with us one evening to meet my partner, and he agreed to meet her as long as she was okay with that. He didn't want to "intrude" on our time together which felt very considerate.
But like!!!!! Wow?!?!?!?!
Two people liking me enough to want to meet each other has me feeling a million and seven butterflies and I'm just out here like "how do I bag these tall hotties?????" 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Obviously that last part was a joke, but sometimes I feel like I have to pinch myself because it feels like I'm in a dream. Love is so dope.
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