Meta is on a rollercoaster about me

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Sometimes they’re fine about me. Other times my existence causes them a lot of anxiety and fear. They don’t want to meet me. They don’t want to hear about me.

How can I develop my own healthy boundaries on this? My partner is honest and open but their updates lead me to feel like the ground beneath my feet is shaky and I never know when it’s going to from solid to yikes. Feels bad.

Advice? Be gentle because I’m feeling hollow and seeking to learn. I’m a nice person and I hate feeling like my existence is upsetting to anyone. Especially someone who doesn’t know me.

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