Hi guys! I'm hoping to get an outside opinion on my dilemma, as the rest of my support system is involved.

I (25f) have three partners: K(26m) D(29nb) and H(26m.) I've been with K for 6 years, D for 4 years, and H for 9 ish months. H has a fiance S(26m) that he's been with for 12 years.

About 10 months ago, K and I moved in with H, S and another 2 friends. I loved living with them. I was happy to keep our living situation that way for the foreseeable future. Today, we had a house meeting where the majority voted to not renew our lease and to split up to separate living situations. I was in the minority and crushed. There are many factors at play here, mostly financial, but I had hoped we could all stay together to work it out.

H and I had been very flirty throughout our friendship, with a mutual desire to date once we had the opportunity. I didn't want to fully commit to him until we were living together because he can be quite flakey and overpromise his time. Our relationship has worked so far because we have time at home together. Now he's moving across town to live with his fiance's family. I truly doubt that he'll make as much time for me as I want.

I do not want to fight for scraps of his attention. I really think that's what it will look like once we've moved out.

He wants to stay together. I don't know if I should end things now, end things when we move out, or try to maintain our relationship despite my fears.

I would really appreciate any input you guys have for me. I feel like I've over explained here but if you have any more questions, I'm happy to answer. Thank you