I don't know if I need advise or help or if I just need to vent. My wife and I opened up our relationship about 8 years ago now. She has had an amazing time - she's had a couple of partners over the years and is currently dating two other people and she's very happy

I've had a crap ass time. The longest relationship I've had have been three or four months, I get no matches on dating apps, and I spend more time alone than I do with people. The worst part is about six months ago, I meet a woman and fell head over heels for her and she said she felt the same. Three months ago, she found someone that wanted to be monogamous and dropped me without a second thought. And then since she dumped, my life seems to have fallen apart. My wife has been spending more time with her partner and leaving me out more and more - I've talked to her, but she says it's in my head and she's doing her best. I've had one date in the last three months and the one person I thought connected with ghosted me after we made plans.

I feel like a failure and I don't know how to get out of this rut. I've been trying to go to munches, but I feel weird by myself. I know that there's really nothing anyone can do. I guess I justed want to get it out here and maybe things will be