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29 [m4m] A connection that feels safe and just right
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QuietPhantasm is a male age 29 looking for a male
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Hey, I’m a 29-year-old guy from Taguig City. I’m looking for someone to build a connection where we both feel safe, seen, heard, and understood and where we don’t have to play games, overthink, and stress over mixed signals but instead naturally commun(i)cate with honesty and mutual respect.

Me:
- 5'7", average build leaning toward the meaty/chonky side, with a normal BMI.
- Light brown skin with a few blemishes because, hey, I’m human.
- I think my eyes are my best (and most flawed) feature because I can’t do without glasses.
- 80 to 90% masc. presenting - I'm fond of singing/humming, cooking, reading, listening to podcasts, watching films/series, and gaming (Pokémon and Wild Rift), and learning everything under the sun. - I would also want to learn about your interests, dreams, thoughts, and feelings. - I value fun, meaningful conversations and thrive when the energy feels safe and reciprocated.
- I'm fond of doing acts of service, giving words of affirmation, and frequent physical touch - Starting a new job in mid-December.
- Working toward financial stability.
- I'm for a direct commun(i)cation when addressing issues and conflicts.

A few heads-up: - I’m attentive to words, actions, and subtle changes in commun(i)cation. If I feel unseen, disregarded, or judged, I tend to overthink, withdraw, and eventually step away—but I’ll always try to commun(i)cate respectfully if that happens.
- I’m actively working on improving my tendency to overthink and self-sabotage. Progress, not perfection!
- Accepting gifts and gestures is still something I’m learning to be comfortable with, as I unlearn the "utang na loob" mindset. - I get anxious and confusing when misunderstandings are ignored and left unsettled.

What I’d be willing to share together: - Quality time—watching movies, eating out, cuddling, sleeping right next to each other or you enjoying the food I cook.
- Meaningful conversations about life, interests, and experiences, with no judgment or hurtful words. - Healthy commun(i)cation, even in misunderstandings.
- A fair approach to dates—whether it’s going Dutch or alternating who treats. If by any chance you have a vehicle, I'll pay for gas since I don't have one. - Properly talk about how'd we spend time together.

NSFW:
When I feel safe, comfortable, and relaxed with you, I become very passionate, touchy, and flirty. I enjoy exploring both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the mood. Sometimes, I want to take charge; other times, I like being cared for. I can be both the big spoon and the little spoon.

I have a wild side—I love intimacy that leaves us both utterly spent. I enjoy exploring different positions and dynamics that feel mutually satisfying. My favorites include missionary and ones that combine control and playful connection. I’m also open to discovering what we both enjoy along the way.

If we reach a point of complete trust and comfort, I crave consistent, un(i)nhibited intimacy—the kind that’s passionate, intense, and playful, with just the right amount of respectful exploration.

You: - Near my age and height (height is negotiable).
- Clean and hygeniec - Willing to teach me what they're into if I become interested with their interests and activities. - Someone who is safe space. - Values honest, genuine commun(i)cation and knows how to set clear expectations.
- Patient, considerate, and okay with me being weird, awkward, or shy while we’re getting to know each other.
- Open to healthy discussions and not easily offended by differing opinions (except for non-negotiables like core values).
- Alright with starting as voice call buddies and building from there.
- Doesn’t see this as a tall order, but as the foundation of something meaningful.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Let’s see if we can build something safe, constant, and lasting.

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