UPDATE:

This post resulted in a hookup a few days ago. While we were able to finish, the poor guy bled. Parang gusto ko na lang maging side.

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Medyo long post:

Some time ago, I met this guy I was really into. I found him deeply attractive and incredibly kind. He went viral on social media because of KMJS because of his looks din. One time, I decided to reach out to him and to my surprise, he responded and found me attractive as well.

When we first met, we already did it. Our first date was checking in a motel, ordering room service, having sex and sleeping. The problem was he couldn’t last because he said I was quite girthy. Masakit daw. Mind you, I did the long foreplay, rimming ng matagal, etc. After about three minutes of penetrative sex, hindi na daw niya talaga kaya. Since consent is everything to me, I pulled out. Nag side fun na lang kami. For all the other times we met, side fun lang and we got along very well naman.

However, he decided to break it off because he said he feels bad he can never be able to satisfy me because he knows there will always be something missing and he’s afraid I’ll cheat on him since hindi niya isunusuko ang Pag-asa Island.

Months later, I met another guy and it’s pretty much the same story. This one was worse because unlike the other guy who enjoyed side fun, this one avoided sexual contact altogether because he said when we first had sex, he was sore for three days. He cannot imagine daw what our sex life would do to his hole.

Now, I’d like to ask bottoms (and even tops) what you guys do to prepare and how w can help ease you into bottoming with minimal discomfort?

I want to fuck until my dick falls off but ang hirap kasi baka may ma- “I Just Died in Your Arms Tonight” naman ako.

By the way, I’m begging you, I’m not humblebragging and I hope nobody here bashes me for this. Legit question to because I am truly getting frustrated. I love sex as much as the next guy and I’m gearing up towards dating again.