Last Summer, I went twice to a jerk off/bating group at someone’s apt. We didn’t have to take off our clothes if we didn’t feel comfortable and it was OK for us to jerk how we wanted. I’m a voyeur so I was happy just experiencing. Once or twice, I’d get someone that wanted to taste or lend a hand, cuz I do well in the “down there” department, which was cool. But, I mostly just chilled.

So, why do I mention the clothing? Well, while I’ve never had any issues finding guys that are into me, I don’t consider myself super fit. Living in NYC truly warps body image and my little tummy and dad bod truly makes me feel unwelcome at some of these gatherings. I’m handsome but I am just not muscular rn.

Does anyone know of a more accepting space for this? I just wish we could all sit around and jerk however is comfortable and not have to put all clothing in garbage bags.