is it normal to find that you want something different for the relationships outside of your primary/nesting? for example, a point of frustration right now with my (29f) husband (34m) is that when I engage with people outside of our relationship, none of them are like him and I do different things with them than what we do all the time so he’s getting a bit sad. I obviously don’t want that but I can’t help how I feel. like my perfect life would be to have a Dom that I can play with from time to time and maybe get a drink and dinner with and hang out, and have them really lean into that side of my kink. with my husband we sometimes do more rough stuff, where either I’ll Dom him or he’ll Dom me depending on the mood. But I would just want our regular sex the majority of the time, which I wouldn’t even say is vanilla but I just like what we have. I don’t know if this is making sense or if I’m just truly a piece of shit lol help thanks :~)