I’m a bi poly woman.

I have a male partner who’s ace, and a few female friends where our dynamic is more relaxed. I could probably hookup with them if I wanted.

But I’ve been craving some good D for about 6 months now (haven’t had sex in that long 🥲) so I’m currently debating redownloading the dreaded apps…

Pick your poison…

Do I go for…

• The mono-leaning guy, who will claim he’s “cool” with poly and then a few dates later decides he can’t share and/or leaves me for someone mono?

• The partnered guy who’s “new” to poly, and has a bunch of rules/restrictions… and a few dates in has his partner veto me?

• The experienced poly guy, who has so many partners/options that he can only meet once a month (or less), and only on his timetable or spontaneously?

• The “one night stand”, where I can cut through the BS, but also worry about danger/safety risks and not trusting them about STI testing?

It’s hard out here, y’all :(

Logic, horny, logic, horny, they’re constantly on a teeter-totter.

Wish me luck. 🍀