Hello! I'm newer to non-monogamy and was looking for some ideas on how to go about a situation I'm in.

For some background, I'm AroAce and Queer, I have no romantic attraction and while I'm ace I still have some libido. I'm not interested in a "committed relationship" due to me being aromantic.

F1 and F2 (Friend 1 and 2) have been in a relationship for about a 1 ½ years now. But, through some conversation they brought up that they both are interested in me while still wanting to respect the fact I'm AroAce. i brought up the idea of being Friends with Benefits. F1 is very open to it since they are very BSDM/Kinky, but F2 hasn't responded yet. I worried if this will cause conflicts because everyone else I hear talk about FWB is negative and they catch feelings, especially being in a very similar friend-group.

• How have FWB worked in the past for you?
• What to do and to not do?
• Would you recommend keeping it private to others or public
• Any other Advice?