Well, like any start off to a newly opened ENM Relationship. We set some boundaries. We discussed in the beginning they may be fluid and change, with different tastes and feelings.

Roll forward a fee days, they have an eye on someone. It's a common place for us both in the community - a daily interaction.

Upon me saying I wasn't comfortable, due to it being close to home, safe space, and that it will be a place of work evidently. They got upset.

Now I'm told I'm in the wrong because it's an unfair ask and something I brought up later on. I may have gotten the wrong end of the stick here with ENM but having no rules is ok?

My argument is that if the interaction doesn't work, that space is no longer safe. Freedom is what they seek. To do as they will.