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Not sure where to turn to but I figured I’d post here. When my son turned 8 months I realized my husband was checking out (he had postpartum and I had very little energy for anything…I was working full time as well as he). I suggested we look into poly and he ran with it. My idea was that it would be light (I’d stay the primary) but the way things have gotten, his girlfriend is now more of the primary. Along with other things, I just feel like my son and I are no longer his primary concern. Ive told him I no longer want to be poly but he hasn't really taken any steps. I'm ready to separate because I don't see him wanting to give up being poly. Any advice?
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Do you get time to yourself? Regardless of whether you are dating others or not, are you having the same amount of time away from home and child as he is?