I’ve been in a relationship with some asexual for the last decade. We were active in the beginning but it was because she felt like she had to. Our relationship has been platonic for about 7 years. Me, not being asexual, would like to be active again at some point in my life. A few years ago we drunkenly broke up and never got back together, but nothing really changed as the relationship is still platonic. We still get pretty intimate, as she’s comfortable with me enough to be in her underwear and kinda snuggle closely with me while half naked, to the point where I question her sexuality and it feels so horrible to even have that thought because it would be offensive to me if mine was questioned. I have so many questions and have no idea where to even start
I don’t quite get it: if you never got back together again, how are you in a relationship where her asexuality impacts you having sex with others?
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I see. Then it sounds like it’s about time you sit down and have the conversation you have avoided. u/iostefini has given you a good list of questions to lean on.
Someone’s asexuality only extends to their own body; you have your own sexuality to live by.