I've been in a dynamic with my sub since Jun, and about 6 weeks ago I introduced her to a new potential partner and we all hit it off like it was natural. New partner stepped into the exsisting power dynamic in a way that fits perfectly. We've gotten together almost every week, but this weekend was our first "family get together"

We briefly chatted scheduling today, and I realized with the holidays, we will go from early nov until January without a weekend time together. My sub suggested we look at January plans and I said that the could has through that and let me know, because I am free all month.

But it got my thinking... I don't know how much I like have to schedule out that far. By January 2 of us will have been together 7 months and it feels bad to try and just fit into a busy calendar when I really want their life to start to open up more space for me. I think our other partner felt a little anxious about it too.

Is this just part of the deal in throuple with two social people? How can I make this easier and not feel like I'm being fit in when there's time?