Maybe it’s the cooler weather or the rain that keeps me inside, but I am sitting here in my home office reminiscing about the few experiences I’ve had in my adulterous journey. The passion and intense connections, laughter and deep conversations. Friendships that encompassed all that is missing in my life. The sadness when those relationships ended, but reminding myself don’t be sad its over be happy it you had that chance to enjoy it.

An affair: what does it mean for you? It is an important thing to understand why you are here… reading this ad. Are you seeking those feelings that leave you fulfilled or excited from just the simplest message, antsy for the next…hiding a smile when it does arrive. It’ll win you a friend and a confidant, enriching our lives, growing and playing that creates a special space together.

Chemistry, if you know you know! It’s everything in a relationship. If present, it’ll happen and in its absence no investment would amount to anything. Therefore just be yourself, don’t be shy about your looks or maybe the way you feel your life isn’t picture perfect. Sure we need to make an effort, be put together and have some vision. But I’m here hoping to meet a real person, someone warm, curious, feminine, and hopefully with a quirk or two(lol, who else would ever be on this subreddit)…

Sex, it’s a major component of an affair. Heck, a big part of why we’re browsing these parts is due to a lack of meaningful intimacy with our SO’s. Still, it has to come as a natural progression of a deeper relationship, at an organic pace. Not looking to rush into that, let it happen.

About me: 5’10, athletic build, blue eyes/salt and pepper hair with a well kept and trimmed beard. I do a ,other of working out at home where I have the time, enjoy reading and movies, can dive deep into interesting or thought provoking series or conversations. I love to cook and try new things in the culinary world.

If you’ve made it this far … let me add one more thing I’d like share, I am a very attentive and passionate lover, and aim to please. If any of this resonates, I’d love to have a conversation and see where it goes.