Lurkers...Bold statement, huh?

It is clear that everyone is here because there's a proverbial itch that needs to be scratched. Roommate situations, lack of affection, warmth, stuck in a routine, underappreciated, etc.

This isn't my first rodeo, a few months ago, I had to end it with a long-term AP I met on Reddit, because their dynamics change into an open relationship.

The rundown:

• 37yr old dad of 2 kids a dog (THE cutest breed - can you guess?)
• 6'0 tall
• Muscular / fit build
• Blue Eyes / brown hair
• Nice smile w/straight teeth :D
• Clean cut
• Well dressed
• Love doing all sorts of activities trying new upscale restaurants
• 8in Hung
• STD free (tested 2 weeks ago)
• Plenty of hobbies, happy to share while getting to know one another

So what is "it all"?

Initial Attraction - While I'm a sapiosexual at heart, there must be some form of initial attraction. Fortunately, I've been described as handsome without being ghosted after a picture swap.

Communication Effort - After an initial attraction, that's the more difficult part. On-going compatibility. Intellectually. Emotionally. Offering a daily dose of wit and banter helps keep things interesting. Note: By effort, I do not mean daily "Good Mornings" followed by 8 hour disappearances :D

Conversation - Excellent conversationalist and communicator. I have a very curious mind, which tends to elicit wonderful exchanges. I'm a student of life and always learning about random things. However, its always nice when you meet someone who can build on conversational topics. Sending a thoughtful and detailed message to get a short response isn't something that'll send chills down anyone's spine. ;)

Opsec - I take all proper precautions and not in the least bit "sloppy".

Ability to meet - Once a strong connection has been established, I'm able to travel at my desire for work. Clients are located all over the country. If you travel for work too, that's a huge benefit as it'd be amazing to experience new cities together.

Sexual Desires - Tons to be said here. My partners pleasure is my pleasure. Amazing kisser. Lover of foreplay. Touching. Exploring. Oral. A race to the orgasm is unnecessary. Very well equipped with excellent stamina, you certainly won't be disappointed. There's plenty more good, but I'll be a bit mysterious.

In short, I am looking for more than a sexual fling. I desire a deep emotional, intellectual, and sexual connection and willing to put forth the effort, if that sounds right up your alley DM me with a little about you and your TG. Happy hunting!