My girlfriend's mom died in a tragic and horrific way on 7/1 due to medical malpractice and gross negligence. My girlfriend moved in with me a week and a half prior. Obviously, my girlfriend is not doing well. We haven't talked much about it and I'm not sure what to do.

I want to start off by saying that I have mental health issues and, as of right now, have incredibly low empathy and don't really feel emotions of my own. I do not like my own mother and cannot put myself into my girlfriend's shoes. However, it breaks me to know that she's hurting this bad. It absolutely breaks me. I feel horrible for not feeling any emotion about it. My girlfriend just gets high everyday to not feel a thing and I don't know how to help her get better. I know it's been a month and that's an incredibly short amount of time, but we've basically had two conversations about it.

I know my girl is hurting and I want to take it away from her. I want to make it all better. I want to help her in any way I can. How can I help her? How can I support her? I've never experienced losing anyone close to me. I want to make her feel better. How can I do that?