I am a recently widowed Queer. I’m looking for STRAIGHT male friends with benefits, but have very specific criteria.

I'm assigned male at birth (AMAB) but non-binary (x) hence my username. 38, 5’10, BLACK 250lbs. I’m interested in becoming friends with STRAIGHT men I can give head to on a regular/on-going basis, with NO reciprocation… but I have some requirements: MINIMUM AGE IS 40. I will NOT meet with anyone younger. If you can travel, I can host.

Ideally, I’d love to be a side-companion for married or committed men in open relationships—men whose wives or girlfriends are aware they have other sexual partners.

Single guys are welcome as well, of course. If you’re going through a drought and just in need of head regularly until something else comes along, that’s perfectly fine.

In terms of physical attributes, I need a man with a noticeable BEER GUT. If your stomach looks like a wrecking ball or is getting there, you’re my kinda guy.

I'm absolutely obsessed with BWC, so the bigger the better. Looking forward to meeting some of the biggest dicks in LA county, though that’s not at all a dealbreaker.

To reiterate: If you can travel, I can host. I’d like my place to be thought of as your man-cave (when we can arrange time): somewhere to relax, eat, watch tv, game, and get your dick sucked. My personal interests revolve around comic books and related media. DC Comics/Marvel/manga, television and feature animation, etc. I’m politically Left/liberal and would love to get in touch with active Dems. I also love philosophical, religious, literary and entrepreneurial studies. Most of all, I just want to meet guys I can have fun with, so personality is key. I really do want to be considered a friend who also happens to suck you off.

If your dick got hard reading this, that's your signal you should message me right away. Let me know exactly why you're about to burst through your pants.

Fully STD/STI screened and negative in all cases. Fully vaccinated: COVID booster/Monkeypox. Taking Truvada (PrEP). Allergy alert: I have cats.