Hi, I'm new in town, just moved here from Indiana, and I don't have any queer friends. I live with my Christian conservative parents (again, I got divorced and I didn't have anywhere to live lol) and spent the whole weekend with them at church and I just really need some queer eye and brain bleach after all that. I would really love to find some kind of community that can take me in instead of just being alone and lonely all the time, but what I would like most is a friend.

About me: - nonbinary genderfluid, they/them. I guess I present femme since everyone "she hers" me all the time -functionally demisexual and romance repulsed (but I love love songs) and I really like the term queer platonic to describe how I see relationships. It's how my brain works. -I'm bi but I keep wondering if I'm just a lesbian in denial tbh. I'm very inexperienced with most things having to do with women. -solo poly, so I'm not into monoamory - atheist. - I'm a big jjba, Bojack Horseman, ofmd fan, love talking about animation, cartoons, tv and movies in general -i have two kids. Imo it's not too relevant since they aren't here, but I would love to find someone who relates, but it's definitely not necessary - I'm Hmong but I've never fit in all my life. I think I'm autistic tbh. I'm always infodumping. - I enjoy musical theatre and drag shows. I'm always trying to find new music. I enjoy looking at art and going to fun and interesting events. Friday night I went to see Jordan Peele's Nope at the Eastside Sculpture garden, and the other week before that, I went to the last performance of Hedwig and the Angry Inch at the Lush theater and lounge. - I support leftism, enjoy knowing more about queer history, and try to be informed on current events, though I'm definitely not perfect.

About you:

-im open to being friends with anyone of any age, but I think I'm most comfortable talking to people 23-30. I've experienced some college, marriage and divorce, but at the same time, I'm still a newbie in some aspects. Not saying that I'm not open to different ages, just explaining why. I don't want to be talked down to, and I might be uncomfortable with someone who is cooler than me, though I'm trying to be better. -im looking for a long term friendship. I hate ghosting. I get that mutual ghosting occurs, but I don't drop off the face of the earth. - please be open to listening. I'm the type that talks a lot. I go really deep and like lengthy discussions and I would love to be infodumped on too! But i would of course respect your boundaries if you just want something very casual and more surface level. - honestly I would really love someone to help support me with being more masc and visibly queer in general. As in, be a cheerleader of sorts and also understand where I'm coming from with how I feel. Being bi and nonbinary isn't a requirement, but if we have the same or similar goals, that would be great.