Hello Everyone!

I am a frequent commenter on other lesbian subreddits and mostly an observer here. I will do my best to keep this short though!

I am 25 yrs old, I have no romantic relationship experience, but I do have a little dating experience. I am feeling discouraged because I've been told and noticed that I can be overwhelming/burdening with my messaging when someone and I are mutually interested in each other.

I really do try to not be overwhelming. I try to be respectful of people's time and energy!

I've been really fortunate to have remained friends with all of my past romantic interests because they're great, kind awesome people. Friends and past romantic interests do note that I am a kind, respectful and honest person too.

But I just cannot seem to find someone yet that I can either: immediately be physically attracted to and by the time I am it's too late. I rush into things more emotionally rather than physically. I like to open up and be transparent with a romantic interest, but that tends to over share. Basically, I message conversations that would be best saved for an in person date.

What is really bothering me is the idea that I'm behind in life and am missing out on an important life milestone. I cannot seem to shake it off and it makes me more sad when I try.

I am curious if any of you relate and have tips or advice for me?

Thank you so very much for your time! I apologize for being long!