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ELI5 why I shouldn’t stay with my boyfriend even though (1) leaving will devastate him entirely, (2) he is a good man and would make a good partner, and (3) I am bisexual enough that I won’t be miserable with him. I want to be a good person and make the right choice.

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I desperately want to do the right thing here. My boyfriend is kind, compassionate, sensitive, and the most supportive friend I’ve ever had. However, I want to have sex with women. Where I keep getting stuck is wondering if that desire is selfish on some level. I have a wonderful partner who treats me right. Why should I ask for more? Why is wanting sex with women valid when I’m in a committed monogamous relationship?

Growing up, it seemed the ‘good’ choice was always obvious. I can be a good wife to him. I have the power to make him happy. Why should I choose the path that hurts him so much?

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