Hi I just want to know how you INTJs of reddit defined love. I know we can be deeply introspective and into figuring things out on our own so I expect a wide variety of answers but I would be interested to see what the most frequent ones are. I don’t know many other INTJs irl, but I saw this same question asked of INFJs recently and the top 2 comments matched what my INFJ wife's definition like a glove so I'm asking the same here of INTJs.

I know there are many different kinds of love out there but let's talk romantic love. If you don't have a strong opinion on the subject or don't think you experience love like most people, let's hear from you too please.

Edit: Tangential, but interesting study about brain scans of people experiencing romantic love pointed out by a helpful commenter below:

https://news.stonybrook.edu/newsroom/press-release/general/010711lovecanlast/