Firstly I would like to know if you think a friendship is even possible. I thought she was INFP. Turns out I got it wrong. Actually INFJ.

When we meet in a social setting, the last two occasions have not ended well.

The first time (several months ago) she seemed to go on a rant of criticism against me. I just assumed she was having a bad day so just let it pass.

Eventually she told me to leave. I checked with her if that was what she really wanted. After about 30 mins more, it was clear that was what she wanted.

So I left.

Several days later she sent me a message saying "I've been an idiot"...

Over the course of the following weeks and months - things seemed to be back to normal. Jokes and fun by text.

We got together again recently. In no time, it was clear she wanted to post mortem our previous encounter. She wanted me to apologise "out of kindness - even when you haven't done anything wrong "

I wasn't prepared to do this because it would have been falee. So she stormed out - slamming a glass on the table as she left. I picked up the $125 check.

I think I have had enough.

Your thoughts?