Hello! Where to begin?... Maybe a few high-level points first:

• INTJ/INFJ depending on the weather.
• Very high openness, high assertive/conscientious/agreeableness, low neuroticism per a somewhat outdated big 5 test.
• Leo sun, Libra moon, Aquarius rising - if that's your thing?
• Love languages are touch and quality time, so total long-distance probably doesn't work. The other languages are fine, more of nice bonuses than necessities.
• Spiritual but not religious, closer to agnostic. This is not liable to change in any direction.

These may start to give an idea of how I am, but... I'm not really a "type" of person. I am very adaptive/mutable which can be infuriating to those who want consistency (which I suspect is the vast majority). That's not to say I don't have a core personality, but I present differently depending on the crowd and can and have fit in pretty well with many "types" of people.

So I have, or have had, many different hobbies and interests. I've always been deeply into video games, movies, music, just media in general. I'm more quality over quantity when it comes to these things, no particular genre although I have preferences I suppose. Recently getting more into anime (i.e. I've watched most of the popular stuff). I've never really cared for going to the gym, although I've been doing rock climbing recently (just getting into V3 level) and have previously done basically every kind of martial arts. I've done a bit in the art world and strangely believe I am destined to make music in some fashion, as I have a variety of musical skills (rhythm, singing ability, understanding of music, etc.) that would be conducive.

I am extremely, I mean extremely resilient. I recently had an experienced mental health professional exclaim how well adjusted I am after detailing just a few things about the last few years and some other major events in my life, and it wasn't the first time one has done so. While I've always had a decent amount of people "in my life", I've recently got to the point of cutting out anyone who is toxic (and I don't mean that lightly), which unfortunately includes most of my previous friends and family. Had a significant relationship that ended about 7 yrs ago which was pretty bad, but last year I was with someone with BPD and that was... something else. Prior relationships were fine, I've been in upwards of 10 depending on what you consider a relationship.

It might be apparent in the way I type that I am an intellectual (okay cringe, moving on....). But like, seriously. I am deeply introspective and have explored politics, religion, science, philosophy, metaphysics, spirituality, more or less in that order over the last 7 yrs (hmm...) and am much more interested in the latter items in the list than the former. So, I don't want to talk much about politics except to criticize it to oblivion. Up the list to spirituality which I could talk about endlessly. I think the important takeaway here is that someone should at least tolerate this sort of introspection and these interests, though I strongly prefer someone who shares them to some degree. It might also be clear that I am not interested in "defending my opinion", I don't really maintain opinions and will just as well argue both sides depending on which has less support in the current in context.

I could continue writing a novel but this is probably a good stopping point for the purposes of this post. Please message me if I seem appealing lol