I went 90 days no contact. I work with my ex. I took FLMA time off. I went back to work a few weeks ago. Didn’t say a word or even look her direction. That Friday she comes to me and says “We need to talk or I’ll report you to HR. We can tell with counselor present or you can come to my room” I was threatened for no reason and made mistake of talking to her during planning.

It was horrible discussion. She blamed whole relationship failing on me and called me delusional and crazy. I told her she was selfish and a narcissist.

Next week she writes me a 9 page letter about “her truth”. She’s say something like you were my soulmate then say I’m fake and phony. She’d say something nice then say something passive aggressive. I responded back and she wrote me another letter. 4 pages back.

This confused me bc I’m last letter it said to reach out to her. I thought she wanted to be cordial at work. Bc we still weren’t talking. So I messed up again… I called her.

She didn’t pick up and responded with text asking who it was. I said my name. She responded “Ummm...I'm not sure what kind of sick game this is, but please leave me alone. We all know “Mike” gave his # to certain ppl, and I was not one of them. Please find someone else to bother. Thanks.” I said okay sorry for bothering you. Next day she calls me bc I didn’t go to work.

We talk for about hour about her truth again. She says she wants me in her forever. 3 times on phone.

I’m confused. So next day I make my 3rd mistake. I text her about her being in her life again. She ignores me…

She continues to string me along and play with me.