I know this isn't unique to grindr by any means, but most of my cruising happens on grindr nowadays. Like my normal spirals, I was bored and had the evening free so I spent time looking for a hookup and after a few hours I found a guy who was available. He sent a face pic and looked really cute! We exchanged for a bit and I invited him over. As soon as he arrived I realized I'd been catfished (it was just a very deceiving photo, not of a totally different person or highly edited or anything, just must've been taken from an angle that really did NOT look like him) and, not only that, but he had pretty bad breath and these weird long fingernails? Just an absurd situation to be in. I redacted what we had talked about doing and just asked how he felt about mutual JO since he had come a long way and I guess I was being a bit people pleaser-y. He came on me and I did NOT finish!! He hung around and tried to chit chat for awhile and I politely asked him to leave and he did. I showered and looked back at my app at the men I had been chatting with, including him, and am so shocked and disgusted with myself at what I was willing to entertain!!!!!! I am not interested in kink shaming (I work as a sex therapist and talk with people about sex concerns, intimacy issues, and fetish talk is really common with my clients), but it's definitely not good how my. boundaries bend when I'm horny!! Things I would never consider when I'm more clear-headed....
TLDR: my dick has led me to places I wouldn't even go with a gun