Woke up Saturday feeling like a hook up would be nice, so I got on grindr to see if I could find someone how to meet with. Found a guy that was hosting at a hotel. Asked for pictures and got a couple NSFW pictures of a guy in his 20's going down on another guy. Looked good, so I went with it. I get to the room, and the dude there was like over 50 years old. Now, I do like older men, but the catfishing was so extreme that all I could do when he awkwardly asked "good?" was say "No, I don't think so." I walked out, blocked him, and drove home. I wasn't even trying to be mean, but I'm pretty sure that's how I came across. No idea how these dudes expect things to go when the person showing up is expecting a completely different person.

After a few hours I decided to try again. I started talking to this very cute femboy who was looking to sub for someone and wanted me to come over. I made sure to ask for a few extra pictures to make sure I wasn't going to meet another catfish, and after I was satisfied, we set a time. The first red flag was all the random crap he had on the porch, and the window with the broken blinds. He had told me to just walk in, and that he would be waiting for me in the living room. I open the door, and I see trash all over the place, I could see the kitchen with dishes piled up on the sink, chicken bones still on one of the plates. To my right there were the stair to the basement, crap piled up all the way down, and at the bottom of the stairs, boxes on top of boxes spilling all over the floor. I looked into the living room, and saw and actually really cute guy wearing lingerie kneeling down on a filthy carpet, surrounded by trash, beer cans, and so much random crap that I could not even figure out what I was looking at. Felt really bad for him, but there was no way I was getting naked in that room. I just said "sorry, maybe another time." and walked out yet again. the house smelled surprisingly normal, but every single window I could see was open as well. I really hope he figures himself out, but there is definitely a lot of shit going on with him for the house to get that bad.

Thid last one was too much, made me a little depressed, and gave up on anything sexual for the remaining of the weekend. Walking out on two hook ups on the same day for the first time is feeling like the last straw with this app

TL;DR: I met a catfish and a hoarding femboy on the same day and immediately walked out on both instances