I am relatively new to reddit, but I have noticed a lot of men commenting that their wives stopped giving BJs once they got married. I was same way. So much hopelessness in so many men. This is a 100% true story, and one that I hope either provides some inspiration to try something new, or gives those struggling a little hope that things can improve with patience, timing and some Cinnamon Bun flavoured lube…

I have been married to my wife for nearly 25 years now, and we were dating for 7 years before that. She was always very attentive when it came to giving BJs while we were dating and I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t one of the more important factors in my decision to propose. I was 23 when I made that decision. Judge me if you want but she could suck a baseball through a garden hose… Before we were married, my wife got pregnant and while she was pregnant, a lot of things made her gag to the point of throwing up… Oral sex being one of them. At the time, I thought would be fine once her pregnancy ended. I was wrong.

We were married, and blowjobs were a thing of the past… I missed them. As time went on, BJs came back, but never with the sheer enthusiasm, or frequency of our pre-married days. I tried everything I could think of, but there was nothing that I could do that helped, so I just decided to back off, and try to be content with what I had. One day, we had to restock on lube and went to the Stag Shop, and it was there that my fortunes changed for the better.

While searching for a new lubricant, my wife spied some flavoured lubes. She said the one we had been using had tasted like shit, and wanted to try them out. I told her to pick a few and we would see how she liked them. She picked out cherry and cinnamon bun, I picked out peach… We got home and decided to take one for a test drive. She pick the Cinnamon Bun one. I don’t know what inspired someone to make a lube that flavour, but I hope they are rich beyond their wildest dreams… She lubed me up and immediately said it smelled great. That was promising. She took one tentative lick, and the next thing I know she went straight in to “suck out my soul” mode! After a couple of minutes she pops up for a breath and says, “OMG this tastes so good!!!” and then dove back down on my cock like it was a warm cinnabon, straight out of the oven!!! She blew me with an enthusiasm and vigor that I have missed my entire married life, and went right up until I couldn’t hold it any more. I’d love to say she swallowed it all with a smile, but this is supposed to be a true story, right??  Regardless, it was one of the best orgasms I have ever had! There was a genuine enthusiasm to it that made it amazing… Since the first time, we have tried the Peach and cherry with some unexpected results.

Here are a few things to learn from this story…

1.      It doesn’t matter if it sounds like a weird flavour to associate with sex. All that matters is that she thinks it tastes amazing. Now whenever my wife smells a Cinnabon, I know what is in store when I get home! I may or may not have walked her by the Cinnabon in the mall near our home to test that theory…

2.      If you use the Cinnabon flavoured lube, be sure to have a shower afterwards and wash it off… The cinnamon made my skin itchy after about 4 hours. I fell asleep after we were done. The peach and cherry didn’t have this issue.

3.      If she uses the cinnamon bun on you, and you use the peach on her, there is a very tasty peaches and creampie to be enjoyed at the end. First time (of many) I have ever done it… She may have freaked out a little when I first went down on her after sex, but she was curious enough to kiss me afterwards to see if it was a delicious as I claimed. She didn’t stop kissing me.  

4.      Cherry is a standalone flavour that didn’t mix well with either of the other two. It wasn’t terrible with peach, but wasn’t good with cinnabon. We likely won’t get that one again.

DON’T EVER GIVE UP HOPE! If you truly love each other, you can find your way back to a loving sexual relationship