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Question for the guys who are usually tough and used to being in control:
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How did you guys find the ability to trust someone enough to really let go and let them have their way?

I'm a switch who's interested in being the sub sometimes, but a major problem is not being able to trust enough

Like not trusting her that she won't be turned off by me not being in control, trust that she'll treat me right, trust that I don't have to keep myself safe, etc

Had a dad who wasn't great who put all that shit in my head. That men have to always be in control of themselves and the situationsituation, can't show any form of vulnerability, etc

I'm sure I'm not alone, so how'd you guys deal with that?

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