The last few days I’ve been talking with a guy I matched with online. He’s 75, I’m 30. That’s an age I’ve been attracted to for a while and think he’s incredibly handsome.

Based off our conversations he is smart, funny, incredibly kind. We have a lot in common (which did kind of surprise me). We’ve had some sexual chats but 9 times out of 10 it’s just the most innocent conversations. We still need to go on a date but so far, I do like this man.

It seems like we both are looking for the same thing: a long term relationship.

While I’ve been attracted to older men for a long long time, I’ve never dated one and the oldest I’ve hooked up with was about 60 a decade ago (I don’t enjoy hookups).

What should I be on the lookout for with this large of an age gap? What should I be asking? I’m just nervous because I want this to go well.