33 Male gay, UK based , partned in a momogonos relationship.

I'm really grounded when it comes to fantasy Vs reality and understand and respect that with Safe boundaries, consenting adults can express their kinks with sexual freedom. I'm here to potentially/hopfully have an open minded conversation with like minded males about my kinks, as I am fascinated by the intellectual side of kink and sexuality. I'm new to Reddit so be kind. p.s not here to be validated, very at one with myself sexualy.

My two biggest kinks are male feet/foot worship, as the sub foot worshiper and the second and prodomint is dad/son role play/erotica. (18 plus) but less classic Dom dad/sub son more an erotic intense, kinky, father figure bond etc with a foot fetish edge.

I'm very at one with my kinks, and have really development a grounded relationship with them, for me it's taking the essence of an unconditional bond and making it erotic, purely for fantasy, intimacy and fun.

I'm equally fancinsted by men that explore a dad/son dynamic in and out of the bedroom, it also seems incredibly common in gay culture.

For those that are interested, I was always really drawn to my father's size 13 feet, big, strong, alpha, wide soles. They represent comfort and home. That along with another memory are certainly the seed to my foot fetish/dad fetish combined.

Through my teens and adult hood, those two kinks have always subtly been their and bloomed. I love lads feet, straight boys feet, middle Eastern feet, big feet, dad feet. And the fantasy of dad son dynamic on top of it, I just find it intensely intimate and erotic. To have a strong, loving dad with beautiful feet, who slowly acknowledges that the affection and emotional bond needs to turn physical, the kink in many ways is the intamscy. The turn on of course extends past feet as well.

Last few years through a loving, beautiful romantic bond with my partner, my kinks have been embraced, acknowledged and enjoyed by my partner, through pillow talk, sex and as a form of inspiration. He loves his feet worshiped and my deep enjoyment of role playing him as my dad,. But tbh his turn on comes from me in absolute pleasure rather then equally being specifically into my kink. I'm in ecstasy as the boy worshiping his dad's big sweaty feet.

We've never opened our relationship nor do I want to. But I would be lying if I didn't want to explore foot worship and my role play kink and make it my own, with like minded role play dad's, son's, bros. My partners kink is voyeurisim, so he would love to watch me fulfill these fantasisies.

A deep part of me wishes to trust our bond and know we can handle it, another part of me is terrified that it could change our dynamic. We've talked about it at legnth, and as much as details need to be defined , the ball has kind of been left in my court. As an idea it certainly turns us both on, but I worry about getting it wrong.

Anywho I'm fancinsted by people's individual journeys, especially with the same kinks/fetish. Great to find pages on Reddit and Twitter dedicated to such, with like minded adults.

Really interested to hear from others of a similar kink, or those who have been in my position when it came to inviting like minded individuals to enjoy safely as a couple their sexual ventures. the Do's and don'ts I guess. Also love to hear from any guys who got into foot worship as a Dom or sub.

My partner and I have a very small age gap, I adore his energy, body, soul. These kinks as much as they are embraced came from me, and I worry that may not be the right balance for a couple, or am I over thinking it? Could we have it all?

Thanks for reading