As the title says, i’m a western european 44yo married man in a sexless marriage.

Dadbod and fully tattooed, intelligent and open minded, looking to find someone who actually values the written word and knows how to express themselves with more than 3 words at a time.

I am a natural born switch, with a wife ranging span of tastes, having experienced both sides of D/s game, including pegging and rope bondage. Not specifically looking to be in any of the specific D/s roles, i guess that’ll depend a lot on the person i’m interacting with.

Been a fan of anal stimulation since i was a young boy, and i always felt bi but never took the leap into male on male interaction.

I live in a loving yet sexless marriage, and am desperate for some erotic stimulation. Basically someone with whom to have a dirty secret that allows me to feel horny yet not alone.

So, in conclusion, if you feel whatever i expressed here tickles your fancy no matter your gender, age, orientation or prefered role, i’d love to hear from you and start a dilogue that can keep us both stimulated :)