Hi everyone, it's been a while 😬 hoping to make a comeback here 😅

I'm currently facing a dilemma that I think may be relevant for a lot of people:

After proving my stability in recovery and finally feeling ready to move out, maintain my job and experience the world comfortably as a functioning adult, the people I live with and who have mentored me have been consistently telling me that I'm not ready and that I will fall apart without them. This comes as they plan to move interstate and I've voiced my desire not to go with them, I would rather stay here where my life and family is. Since I've been asserting myself and going out more, making friends etc. I've been told not to "make roots here" and I'm well-aware of the manipulation happening here, but I'm not sure what to do.

What do you do when your "support" people are holding you back?