I'm a pre everything 30s ftm. I'm literally out to my husband, one friend and that's all.

My sister told me this afternoon that I look like I should be married to a woman....and then her husband laughed and said yep, you look like you should be on that gel, testosterone.

Here's the thing, I'm totally ok with the T gel comment, it was just a strange comment as, the only thing I've changed is my hair that I cut nearly a year ago, and I've been working on my sleeve tattoo. But I don't like the "married to a woman" comment.

I'm not a butch lesbian. I'm a gay ftm...and as I've said nobody even knows.

I was so shocked I just kind of laughed it off. I feel like I may have missed my opportunity to completely be serious and say, yep, one day I may be on t gel. Ugh...