Hi everyone! I have been following this page for a couple of months and finally decided to make a reddit account (again) I am 24 and I would sau im a CI1-CI2 when I am soft, and a CI1 when erect. I have some skin that can move comfortably when erect but I have always wanted my foreskin back. Moving on to the topic. I have been dating my now fiance for 4 years, recently engaged as of October of '23. I talked about how there were ways of restoring foreskin a while back and she refuses to accept foreskin to be a normal thing. She says its disgusting but she has only seen I think one guy many years ago that had one. I told her if we have a son he wouldnt be cut but she insists he does. Her dad ended up coming out and saying he is gay after 3 years of her parents being divorced (divorced right when I started dating her) and his husband is intact. We were out at the bars one night with her dad(s) and the topic was brought up about circumsision. Her dad believes they shouldn't be cut even though his 2 sons were. (they had kids very young so im sure it wasnt even a thought) They believe its just a normal thing in America but disagree with it now. I have been restoring for a couple of weeks now but I have kept it secret from my fiance. I don't know how to tell her nor want to for the fear that she would bash me and not support it one bit. We dont live together yet so when I am not around her the days I work I use my mantor to tug. If shes around I hide it in a drawer. What should I do!? Since I was 17 I have been dreaming of restoring my foreskin and now is my chance to enjoy being intact and on this journey to feel whole again like many others!

EDIT: 5/12/2024 I told her. She was very thrown off thinking it would require surgery. I explained to her everything and how the process would work. After a little bit of talking about it she says "do what you want then. If you want to do that, I want my lips done" I replied to her I never had an issue with you doing anything whether its a breast reduction or some freaking filler. She then proceeded to say she wants our kids circumcised (obviously if its a boy when we have one) I didnt like that she would say that to me after I told her I wanted to reverse it to myself. I didnt continue to argue and just ended the topic since I didnt want to have another topic of discussion after telling her a crazy thing I wanted to do. Part of me feels like I would be a selfish asshole and arrogant if I were to end things merely because I am against circumcision. Shes somewhat of a feminist and I would escalate things I'm sure if I said "what happened to my body my choice?" She is more afraid that if we had an uncut son, that no one would want to sleep with him. Which that sounds a little selfish assuming that. If she would sleep with me and im restoring thats a little hypocritical.