We’ve been in a Female-Led marriage for 3 years now, 39(F), 35(m). I’ve always wanted Her to keep me in chastity, but it never really interested Her. I know not to pester Her about my kinks because that just makes Her mad.

Because it’s one of my top kinks I ask Her again about chastity every 6-8 months to see if She has any new feelings about it. To my surprise when I asked about it again this time, She seemed ready and waiting for it, and told me She would start keeping me locked in chastity if I was willing to indulge one of Her kinks that we had never agreed to before. 

She said that She could get into the idea of keeping me regularly locked in chastity but She wants to date and sleep with other men. She knows that cuckold fantasies have always turned me on as a fantasy, but that I’ve never really wanted to try it in reality. 

I would love to be kept in chastity by Her, but I am really not sure if I could handle Her out there having sex with someone else. The thought gets me incredibly hard and She knows it, but when I’m not aroused it scares me. Is this a trade off I want to make?

Any advice appreciated.