Ok long time poster as I bitch on this subreddit alot as of late I'm struggling to define myself femboy has always been a comfortable label I attach to myself because by most people who meet me immediately tell me how fem I am despite being a man who is wider and taller than average Ive seriously just been considering reducing my femboy mannerisms and outfits as it seriously does fuck with my mental health trying to obtain a impossible beauty standard I know I won't reach ? When I was younger it was a saving grace to me the term femboy gave me a sense of community and to understand people like me exist I just don't think I belong with the femboy label anymore at 23 not that older femboys don't exist just the term no longer fits me I'm at that strange crossroads from avoiding the gym the last three weeks to looking kind of normal not fem or masc just average and it's made me really happy if I can find a way to deepen my voice maybe add a few face piercings maybe I can just be average Normal just not enjoying the femboy aspect of myself anymore it's like the last two years I've been drifting from it so this post may actually be goodbye tbh because I'm not technically a femboy anymore I'm happy I found this sub and really hope people achieve there goals 🖤