When meeting and getting to know new sub partners, I always insist on actual dates. I like when there are super subtle ways to be in control throughout.. a recent one I had that was good for this was a mini golfing date. I made him keep score, retrieve the balls, carry them to the next hole, it was up to me if and when we played another round, what we ordered for snacks etc. I made him putt first so I could learn from his errors lol

I’d like to go out with him again. We talked about going to a movie, and I don’t think there’s as many opportunities in that scenario.. I’d like to plan something else too or tack on something more playful.

Do you go on dates with your subs? Have you found cute date ideas that allow for this kinda easing in and getting to know each other?