Hi there! If my title didn't scare you off then that's a good sign. I have dabbled with casual online power exchange over the years and enjoyed it, but this time around I am looking for a potential life partner. I want to love and be loved, much more than I want any particular sort of kinky fun. I want to get to know you! I'm still open to play before we are super serious if you are up for that, but please do not message me if you have no interest in ever taking it further than that. I also ask that you only message me if you are single.

With all that out of the way, I should tell you a bit about myself!

Appearance-wise I am tall and slim with blue/gray eyes and brown hair, and a stranger on the elevator told me today that I look handsome like an actor, which I'm going to count as a rave review.

I don't think it's super important that we share hobbies, but in case you'd like to know: I enjoy hiking, games, language learning, cooking, baking, and telling my cat over and over that she is a perfect little princess. You definitely get bonus points if you enjoy that last one too. I'm on the lookout for new fun things to try out, but that covers most of what I am up to lately. I definitely also spend plenty of my free time just loafing around being a cozy homebody and watching Netflix and such.

I put a lot more importance on sharing the core aspects of our worldviews/morals. You don't need to be a perfect copy of me, but we need to agree on the big stuff. I have generally leftist/progressive ideals. I also have a very secular/scientific view of the world. I think belief in things like astrology, magic, crystal healing, religion, superstition etc would be offputting in a romantic partner. I'm also pretty responsible with my money and I think I would struggle with a partner who is not. And lastly, I do not want to have children.

I think it might finally be time to talk about kink! As a sub, I find my domme's enjoyment very rewarding and I am enthusiastic in my pursuit of that feeling. I definitely have my own preferences as far as kinks, but if I can tell that you are really into something then that is often enough to get me excited for it even if it would not otherwise interest me. TLDR I *love* to please, and hearing that I've been a good boy would be the cherry on top! I would definitely count myself as a service sub too. I love the idea of doing all kinds of favors for you, pampering you, taking on more than my share of the household chores just to make your life easier, that sort of thing. I'm big on praise, worship, and general simp behavior too. I have a lot of feelings and I love to let them out! I also very much enjoy any form of orgasm control, and really just being controlled in general! I just love to feel you exerting your power over me. Ongoing rules, one time tasks, whatever you are in the mood for. I love when it gets degrading too. I don't need you to be into all of this. I don't have any particular kink that I feel is totally necessary for me. And in case you're into it, I should mention that I can switch as well. But if that's not your cup of tea, I am perfectly happy to stay purely in the submissive role.

Limits: I'm pretty iffy on most pain play, particularly ball busting or anything that leaves a mark (I do think spanking can be hot though). I generally try to keep things very safe. If you ask me for money I won't even bother responding. I would want the femdom aspect of our relationship to remain private, and I think public play that exposes strangers to our kinks is wrong. I can also be a bit sensitive about punishments. I think if you are genuinely disappointed or upset with me, that is something we should talk about rather than solve it with kink. And if you're not actually upset with me, then I just need some reassurance of that. "I'm not mad at you, but rules are rules" kind of thing. It's funny, if you "punish" me just for fun I might love it, but if that same punishment is used as an expression of negative feelings I will feel genuinely horrible. Even if we end up in a relationship where I worship and cater to you while you degrade and talk down to me, there still needs to be an understanding that this is something we both do for our enjoyment and my needs and feelings still matter. We are equals, voluntarily de-equalizing in certain ways because it feels good for both of us. You still need to care about me.

Feel free to ask me anything at all if you want some clarification or are curious about something I didn't mention. This is all kind of a rough idea of things, and we can hammer out all the details with good communication.

Please send me more than just a greeting! I would love to hear about you and what you are looking for. I would also appreciate knowing your age and your rough location (just want an idea of how far away you are). I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)