Good evening, good night, good morning to whenever you may be reading this!

Hey, I’m a 21 year old submissive guy looking for a dominant woman to become friendly with and then hopefully turn it into a longer term relationship!

About me

I’m 21 years old, I’m 6”1’ / 186cm, with brown hair and brown eyes. I’m open to exchanging non face pics early on to ensure there’s a mutual attraction and then face pics once we get to know each other better :). But to me, personality, and how we connect, trumps all else.

I’m a mix of an introvert and extrovert. I may be a little reserved and quieter initially, but I will warm up to you very quick. I do still enjoy a night out and being around people, but unless I know you or them well, I will be more on the quieter side. I’d describe myself as kind, caring, loyal, observant.. is that a weird thing to say I don’t know? I find it interesting just watching people and the world go by sometimes. But I’m also obedient and like to please, but with a hint of brattiness here and there! I like people with a good sense of humour, ideally a little dark, and if that’s you then I think we’ll get along rather well.

I’m interested in most things outdoorsy, whether that’s going on walks, cycling, swimming. I enjoy keeping fit and going to the gym. Building onto that my most recent endeavour is learning how to play golf, so I find myself out and about often during the week and at weekends. I like going down rabbit holes of weird and wonderful things I see online and end up absorbed in whatever topic that may be. I enjoy board games and spending a quieter evening / night in, but I can get quite competitive.

Kinks and dynamics

First and foremost I am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic - atleast not to begin with. I have a busy ish life and my job can be a little stressful at times, so until we have a deep level of trust and understanding, some days I may not want to engage in anything femdom related. That’s not to say I’m not open to the idea of a 24/7 dynamic of sorts down the line. I’ve got experience and have been exploring a wide range of kinks over the past year, but I feel like I’ll be here all day if I list them out haha. It’ll be quicker to list my limits which are: scat, vomit, permanent marks, anything illegal, needles, knives, breath play, hard cbt, cuckhold.

If I were to pick out some favourites then chastity, pegging / ass play, bondage, spanking, edging would defo all be up there. And I have gained a respectable toy collection so far too!

About you

I don’t have a specific type, and like I said previously it more so depends on how well we get along. But I would hope my ideal partner takes care of themselves and stays fit and active and is in the age range of 18-26. Someone who shares the same / some of the same interests as me, but I’m always looking to expand my hobbies and try new things. I’m also looking for someone who is confident in what they want, motivated - whether they be in their career or their interests. I’ve started my career, and I see myself living in London in the foreseeable future, and hopefully for quite a few years after, so you’d have to be on a similar page regarding location. I’m not just looking for a domme / mistress, I want a friend and partner first, someone who I can share everything with and feel safe with. We are both only human and things aren’t always going to be perfect, so being able to tell each other more personal things and help one another grow and become our best version is something that is important to me.

I know I have typed a lot, and have been somewhat specific in places, but please feel free to send over a message / chat if you’re interested and would like to talk! I’m very open minded and happy to wait and see where things go. I have written a fair amount in this ad, and would hope you’d return the favour, to some extent, with your opening message.

Hope to talk to you soon!