Hello nice to meet you.

I’m 33-year-old living in Arkansas. 6’2” short dirty blonde hair with a short bread that I debate on shaving off every week. Hazel eyes that go between green/blue. Body would be more in line with a dad bod which I am currently working to eliminate. I present male in IRL with hints of Fem with a keen eye you will see. When not at work I do present more fem and that can be seen via my profile.

Personality type is ISTJ. Geek at heart and love playing games. RPG, FPS, Sim games are usually my go to. Stargate SG1 is my favorite show of all time and have lost count of how many times I have re-watched over the years. Landscape photography is a new passion of mine. Cooking has always been a way for decompressing from the day. Following a structured recipe to the last ingredient to make a dish that will dance on the taste buds. Labor of love that I share most with the people I love.

My ideal Femdom.

Age: Rough range 26-40s. (I am open to older.)

Location: Fairly open to location. Would prefer someone close to my location.

Someone who is also a geek at heart or accepting of us geeks. If you are a gamer then that a huge plus. I resonate more with a gentle femdom who is compassionate, communicative and who can be stern when needed. Would be starting online and once trust is built venture to in-person.  Not looking for someone who is total control and only about D/s 24/7. Would be sending messages throughout the day about anything and everything. If a gamer then that would also be added in.

Kinks - Short list for post. Will discus more when messaging.

Starting with hard limits: Not following consent and respecting boundaries, anything illegal, blood/scat/bodily fluids, anything that’s permanent.

Soft limits: CBT, Chastity (short term use), impact play, feminization (can elaborate more when we talk).

Kink: Nipple play, bondage, spanking/flogging, pegging, orgasm control, edging/denial and medfet to name a few.

Safety, consent and trust are a major priority and after chatting first we both do not feel a spark then we let it fizzle out. I do keep my heart guarded and once I feel safe it will pour out and embrace anyone like golden retriever and loyalty like a cocker spaniel (my fav dogs).