I am inexperienced, but I am ready to explore and learn more about you. Overall, I myself and geeky, and enjoy regularly spending time by myself and with friends exploring my hobbies. Ultimately, I don't have that person I trust intimate, and I hope that can be you.

What I'm Seeking

First, I want a long-term relationship, as I want to establish a deep connection and trust with the person I am dating. I'd be open to a short-term relationship, but definitely nothing casual. Ultimately, I'd also like the relationship to be more female-led. I have a lot of anxiety and nervousness with communication, and knowing that the other person has the reins more in the relationship I believe would really help relieve that for me. Doesn't mean I don't want to do anything special for you of my own volition of course.

I'd also love for the person I'm dating to be more geeky like me. We don't have to have the same interests here, as I'd love to share fandoms, hobbies, etc with one another. However, knowing you are geeky on some level would be greatly comforting to me and would help me feel more relaxed and open with you sooner.

My kinks
First, with the FLR side of things, I am absolutely interested in exploring Femdom with you. I'd love for you to be able to take charge in the bedroom. I'm honestly relatively new to kink and I am open to exploring different sides of kink as long as we discuss it first. Though some things I know I'd already love to explore are pegging, humiliation/praise, gentle femdom, and sissification/feminization. I'm definitely open to exploring more. My main limits that I have no interests in exploring are findom and scat play.

Please also know the part of BDSM that excites me the most is the clear communication and intimacy/trust required. I've also been nervous that my future experiences in the bedroom wouldn't be fun because I'm terrible at social cues, but BDSM practices from my research provides great routes for clear communication and check-ins.

More about me
I am a white red-haired man in my mid-late 20's. The biggest thing to know about me is that I am geeky. My hobbies and interests currently include Star Wars, boardgames, baking, reading, and more. My everyday hobbies and friends are my priority over work. I'd also love to travel more. I lived in the Netherlands for a year, and after that experience would love to see more of the world.

Who I am looking for
I am looking for a woman/trans woman who is geeky like me and willing to take more of the lead in the relationship, but I want you to understand that it will take us developing a sense of trust between one another before I fully submit to you. I also hope you can be a kind gentle person.

You should also know that I've only been in 1 relationship previously, which was over 5 years ago. This means I'm a bit inexperienced in the realm of relationship. However, I'm happy and ready to learn more about you and explore what being in a relationship requires.