Hi there! I'm a 5'10 158 pound mess of shyness that somehow also manages to look pretty cute. Lately I'd say I feel very afraid that I've lost any idea of what it means to be in a relationship since I've been pretty uncompromising in looking for anything vanilla for a while. Just know that I am a service sub that's able to go out of my way to switch if desired but I could comfortably sub forever if that is not something that would be desired. I'm very much a nerd in my interest but I'd really like to connect with people even in stuff I'm not familiar with so whatever you'd like to do together I would appreciate to be included in it with you if possible. I want to prioritize an emotional bond.

What I can offer: Emotional support and attentiveness towards what you're going through. I'm patient and wont hound you when you're busy. I'm willing to compromise without holding it against you in any way. I wont overwhelm you with my problems as that isn't fair to you at all. Endless comedy and comfort at almost any hour of the day. Am able to communicate whatever is on my mind so you aren't blindsided about how I'm feeling. I don't mind talking about literally anything you feel like discussing, even if I have no expertise in that area I'm fine with learning or giving my thoughts on it. Am also open minded and respectful of your interest/judgement free. I do want to help build the best version of yourself so if you have any goals that I can help you with, feel free to let me know.

I consider myself very compromising in most other things that matter in a stable relationship. I never go out of my way to yell or try to make you anxious as I know a bit about how it feels to be on the receiving end of that. My limits are very well thought out and I'll elaborate on any extras but of course I'm not interested in forced bi, crossdressing/feminization, piss, scat, or anything super harmful. I want to focus on the emotional connection for a bit but we can also discuss dealbreakers and attraction at the start if you'd prefer to get it out the way.

What I'm looking for: I want to meet someone that can enhance my quality of life in the same way I hope to enhance theirs. I'll be honest though, I've written about what my "type" of person is in the past and never seem to get the right vibe, I'm curious if they're out there but if you happen to be friendly, goofy and curious then that's definitely in the right direction. I would very much prefer long term, I'm looking for someone 23-31 that lives in New York City or very close. I'm very open to many sizes so don't be too hard on yourself.