I know I'm probably a little old for a submissive man looking for a gentle femdom dynamic, but I think my age might actually have some not-so-secret advantages. First off, I feel young at heart, and I take care of myself well enough that I look pretty good for my age. I also am much more in touch with my emotional well-being than I was when I was a younger man (yay therapy!), and I'm more emotionally present, intelligent, and aware than ever. I think this is all very helpful to be able to help see to my own needs (emotional, physical, and beyond) as well as those needs of my partner.

If we can develop trust, then we can be fully vulnerable and open. If we can develop good communication habits together, we'll be able to freely and joyfully express our wants, needs, desires, fantasies, and limits without judgement, fear, or embarrassment. We can meet each other where we're at instead of trying to mold someone into who we think they should be. If we can be vulnerable together, then we can grow together and the sky's the limit.

In addition to trust and vulnerability, I find overall connection (outside of kink), mutual attraction, communication, to be super important. So here's some non-kink stuff about me: I'm 6 feet tall, about 175 lbs, love to keep fit through yoga and the occasional run. I love to cook (especially for others), maintain a plant-based diet, and am 420 friendly. I play music often, love to go see music, and am a big-time music nerd in general. I enjoy watching movies, hanging out with friends, being outside whenever possible, riding my bike, and

I'll go into some of the kinky details but will also leave some things out for us to discuss in private, should you feel like messaging me. I'm a switchy sub who wants to find a gentle domme to develop something real with, in-person. One of my love languages is acts of service and that definitely finds its way into the bedroom for me. I love to make sure my partner is completely satisfied and enjoy learning about her body to find out exactly how to get her to where she wants to be. I particularly love oral sex, massages, am curious about ass play/pegging, and I would love to explore tantric sex, so if you're into that or curious as well, let's talk about that!

I am not into pain, chastity, humiliation, findom, most bathroom-related things, sissification, or anything that makes me feel "lesser than" as a human being. While yes, I am a submissive male, and I do want to submit myself and give up control, I need to be first and foremost considered as a complete person with hopes and dreams and feelings and a heart.

This turned into a longer post than I anticipated, so if you're interested, please send me a message that includes your age and location and a little bit about you and what you're looking for. Thanks for reading!