Hey there!

For years, I’ve dreamed about being in a loving relationship with a confident, dominant woman. The normal relationships that I’ve had in the past always seem like there’s something missing. Still, I’m an optimist, so I always try to keep up the hope! I’m excited to get to know all of you better. Let me tell you a little about myself.

I’m 41 years old living in North Alabama in the Huntsville area, and I’ve got a Masters in engineering which I am using to develop software simulations. I consider myself to be reasonably attractive, intelligent, emotionally mature, open-minded, sane, and stable. I’m a shy, introverted and independent person that relies mainly on myself. I’m a huge geek and a major homebody - most of my hobbies revolve around things like Star Wars, computers, video games, Legos, and stuff like that. If it has electricity flowing through it, I’m probably interested in it! I also enjoy “normal people” things such as baseball, listening to good music, binging Netflix, reading, learning about history and the world around me, hanging out in my house playing with my cat, etc. I have to keep up with politics and current events (I spend way too much time on Reddit…) I embarrass myself by singing along in the car at the top of my lungs. I workout most days, and while I’m not there yet, I have a goal of getting fit enough to be a Calvin Klein model someday. Haha, maybe that’s not realistic, but it’s a fun goal to shoot for! I’m 5’11” and currently 150 lbs. I enjoy cooking together and the shared experience of crafting something side by side.

I’m passionate and enjoy cuddling up on the couch, caressing each other and making out like high school kids. If you tell me I’m a good boy and scratch my head with your fingernails, I will purr like a cat and be putty in your hands. Someone who takes control in the bedroom is very attractive to me. I’m romantic enough to still dream of the Disney fantasy of happily ever after, even though I’m aware enough to know it happens rarely.

I have been involved with a domme once before, as more of a FWB type situation, and it was a very fun experience. She was mostly into pegging, which I liked. Eventually, she would make me wear her panties before we had sex, which for some reason I found incredibly exciting… Ever since then, I’ve had a big feminization fantasy, and constantly thought about a woman dressing me up in her lingerie, especially if she’s physically putting it on me herself. Something like…she really gets off on turning me into her lesbian lover - but with a cock. I also love it when she makes me eat my own cum; it makes me feel like a total slut!

I crave to take all that into an actual boyfriend/girlfriend role-reversal type relationship someday. I’m very into all the kind, gentle, and loving aspects of femdom, but not so much the pain aspects that the mainstream porn world seem to ascribe to it. In other words, I want to be your beloved pet and partner - not your worthless slave. I have a great deal of self-respect and I feel that you have to be worthy of my submission as much as I have to be worthy of serving you. All that being said, I still love vanilla stuff and switching as well.

Thank you for reading through all this, it’s hard to write about yourself. If I pique your interest enough to stand out, it would really make my day to hear from you! Have a wonderful day and stay safe!

SFW pic: https://i.imgur.com/9PlfFpO.jpg