The title says it, I am 24 years old male, I am a switch and I am looking for a play partner, sub, Dom or switch as well.

If I publis this in r/femdompersonals it means my sub side strongly asking for it.

About me (in brief)

• I am 24 yo and I am from Italy
• I am nearly 1.80m tall, neither slim neither chubby body type (I keep myself in decent shape, but definitely not a sporty person), dark blonde/brown hair, blue eyes. I usually like to present myself well dressed and clean (prepare to see many pics of me wearing shirts, blazers and that kind of stuff)
• I recently graduated and I am starting working (I am a pretty busy person during my days, I like what I do and I consider myself ambitious)
• I consider myself a pretty mental person, except when I need physical stimulation (here kink enters). I have many more or less nerd interests and hobbies in which I like to deep in, I will never list explicitly them though. Let's say you may discover I know about various diverse topics, some you would expect, some you wouldn't.
• I like to listen and understand people, even if I am not traditionally empathetic. Who knows me describe me as cold and slighltly stubborn, but at the same time as sensitive. If you know what it means, I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously). I lowkey hate small talk and loud places.

About me (kinkly)

Kinkly, I am a switch, I call myself mainly Dominant because It is the role in which I have the most experience and which is more coherent with my natural attitude. At the same time I have a sub side that sometimes just craves some attention.

Just to be clear, I am capable to keep the two roles separate. If you wish to meet just the "Dom" me it's fine. If you wish to meet just the "sub" me it's fine. If you wish to meet both it's double-fine.

I will avoid listing explicitly all my kinks, because 1) probably you may guess many of them (nothing so stunning and unexpected) 2) it's actually more fun to talk about that together. Anyway, some time ago I made this, if you are curious.

What I am looking for

I admit I have a wide range of kinds of relationships I am open for. I may be looking for: play partners, friends, friends with benefits, submissives, slaves, Dominants, Mistresses, freaky switchy friends to be silly with, and more.

Just to be clear: I don't exclude straight away long term relationships, but please 1) don't come immediately with a long term plan (we still have to know each other and I hate when people put pressure on me on those things) 2) remember that to me factors like distance are crucial (in most of the cases I will prefer to avoid LDR). Moreover, I would say that I don't easily "fall in love" and I am very picky when things gets serious.

About you: be 19-20 or older. Be on or above legal age for your own country. Be preferably from Europe, even better from Italy (essentially, the closer we are, the better). Online only is fine, but remember what I wrote above.

Just to avoid unpleasant situation, let me list a few mine limits/turn-offs/potential deal breakers:

• I will not make it be text only, I would like us to see and percept we exist in the physical world (I am not talking - just - about NSFW stuff, actually I respect if you wanna be cautious with that)
• I am not one that trust easily and I care about privacy, especially when we know each other from few time
• I don't want this to involve money and private life, in any way
• I generally prefer thin/regular body types and I may not like you if you are too much on the chubby side, even if I want to specify I am not that picky (actually just being in a decent shape is more than fine)
• I am heterosexual and I would say masculine too and I am looking for cis women only.

Why choosing me and not another one in 1000 (what can I give you, kinkly and non)

I am a pretty deep person (once I open up), when I want I can listen people and support them, I can give people original insights, I can make good inside jokes once we know each other.

Kinkly, as a Dom, I have a good immagination and they say I can create some nice scenarios (sometimes I like to see myself as a sort of "movie director"). As a sub instead I would say to choose me because, since my sub side lacks a bit from attentions, I will easily turn on and become a needy whore who can be bossed around.

If you guess we could click, I wait for a your Dm here on Reddit (I may not answer immediately because of time zones, but for sure in a day you will get an answer). I appreciate a brief introduction of who you are (if not already written in your profile). See you soon!

Please, if you read all, write "papaya" somewhere in your message. Thanks :)