I wish I could start this by explaining who I am or what I’m looking for, but honestly, I’m not sure why here or even making this.

I’m an INTJ, yet somehow, I am a hopeless romantic. I like to pretend that I’m unphased by everything around me, but truth is I’m rather easily affected; whether I elicit a reaction or not, there is a lot going on beneath the surface that I wish I could express, but I’m not sure how to go about doing it.

I tend to rewatch series instead of starting new ones, because getting familiar with new characters requires developing a bond with them, one that I find emotionally exhausting on my part.

I constantly seek to improve myself, be it through learning mechanically challenging skills, like playing the piano, or developing pieces of code that satisfy a certain need of mine. Despite not having any political opinions, I like to debate with people with different takes on any topic to understand the logic train that led them to where they are.

I thoroughly enjoy dark humor; there’s just something so… beautiful about not only laughing through one’s own pain but emerging an even greater person after experiences that would normally break others. Ricky Gervais’ Afterlife for example, just wow.

There’s still a lot I wish to learn about myself, as I am far from whole, however I am still learning to accept some things about who I am and what my preferences in life are. I am not everyone’s cup of tea and it’s not easy for me to move one from that, but it’s a truth I’m going to have to face sooner or later.

I cannot begin to stress enough how much I’m NOT looking for a strictly kink partner. In fact, that is not the main aspect of the relationship that I’m seeking at all. If you find yourself thinking about kink most of your time, then I’m sorry, but I’m not the one for you. I’m looking for a lady, a mature woman, someone with class and elegance. I don’t wish to play childish games of hard-to-get or pretending to be busy and the likes. I want someone that isn’t afraid to express her opinion, or to be vulnerable.

This is my story, or at least part of it.

I’m broken, and you’re here because you’re not complete; we yearn for something that we never found.

Let’s make each other whole.