26yr old cynical sweetheart, part time romantic, part time nihilist, part time philosophy student and in search of likeminded people to find happiness on this big rock floating in space. Ideally, I end up meeting someone with whom a flirty friendship develops into a lovely and kinky relationship, but I'm convinced life finds its unique way, so I'll just vibe with whatever happens as long as it involves getting to know each other first and foremost. :)

I'd appreciate it if you: are from Europe, after something serious, willing to meet up if we vibe, hit me up with a (small) introduction, maybe send a song you really like, or the name of a book or movie that is dear to you. :)

Style-wise twinkish minimalist grunge/alternative skater look ^(wow), long brown hair, short sidecut, skinny and relatively fit. https://imgur.com/a/sVtYcDK Music is a big passion of mine, I play drums and won't leave the house without my headphones. Genre-wise, anything goes as long as I like the vibe; however, there is a certain propensity towards heavier music. (Semi-current top 30 in case you're interested: https://imgur.com/a/kQUrCEY ).I do enjoy all kinds of gaming, be it boardgames, videogames, cardgames - theoretically I also enjoy reading (practically I should read more). I work out regularly to feel more comfortable in my body. :) I'm keenly aware that 90% of those hobbies involve sitting around; I'm totally cool with doing stuff together that involves leaving the house, such as riding longboard or just strolling through the city and getting some good food. ^{(or public play shh})

Im very talkative when I'm comfortable and enjoy talking about almost anything that comes to mind. If I can't contribute anything meaningful, I'll just make stupid jokes. Also possible are deadpan sarcasm replies or me starting to tell random stories that don't at all seem connected to bring across that I can relate to something you told me. (might include stories I already told, my brain is very good at forgetting things) Preferrably, we can make stupid jokes and laugh a lot, but also have some more in-depth conversations c:

Honesty, fairness and openness are very important to me. I tend to think a lot about minimalism, non-conformity, and other semi-pretentious stuff. Combine that with a dose of ADHD-mannerisms (^{not diagnosed (yet})) and you get a lovely clusterfuck of a personality. I think this is a very complicated way of saying, to most strangers, I'm a bit of an oddball. :') Just appreciate the weird and be aware of your own expecations, you get used to it. :p ^{(Also anecdotally speaking, if theres some ADHD in your brain, we probably vibe})

The submissive/kinky part:

For me, kinks aren't necessary requirements, I view them more as a list of things that can be enjoyed or explored together if we're both into it! With that out of the way, horny me finally gets to talk about kinky stuff. (and there is a loooot of kinky stuff)

A versatile dynamic in which everything between light/casual/gentle domination and strict orders are options is a huge turn on. ^{(Purely strictness doesn't fulfill emotional needs to the same extent}) I'm very obedient, you don't get a lot of brattiness from me. c: Favorite position is cowgirl (or on my knees :') ).

Very much into (occasional) orgasm control - giving up the right to cum quickly turns me into a horny mess that can't focus on anything except the desire to be used. (Hence, it needs the right occasion because it can get quite exhausting) But its totally worth it. The mindstate of being under someones control and getting reduced to their horny, easy to tease slut is exactly the right mindspace for me. c: (could try using a cage with the right person) This goes hand in hand with edging, getting edged, edging on command or as part of sex - I love being desperate for someone else. c: (Grinding also qualifies, probably my favorite foreplay, the feeling of intensifying lust is marvelous)

Oral fixation is the name of the game: I love (having) to use my mouth to worship feet, armpits, rimming or licking. Just grab me by my hair and show me where you want my mouth to be. Alternatively: I'm on my knees on command, taking sneakers off to kiss, lick or smell feet puts me into sub-heaven instantly. Smell is optional, of course - but a big turn on, especially because the knowledge of this makes it way too easy to tease me. Unsuprisingly this oral fixation also extends to spit. Being told to open my mouth just for someone to spit into it is so simple, yet it does all the right things for me. (I do also swallow and love playing with cum, cleaning up creampies, having to lick it from every possible body part, self-facials - yesss please )

Humiliation and degradation are two more buttons I'll willingly let you push. Partly just a way to approach other kinks (e.g. feet, smell), partly a way to verbally degrade me, call me all sorts of names or even better, make me do all sorts of dirty and disgusting things. (dont tell anyone I lick toilets on command and how much that turns me on) Playing with disgusting stuff is incredibly effective, for me being horny overrides most feelings of disgust. If you're into someone getting incredibly turned on by what should be disgusting, there is plenty of fun to be had together. c: Unsuprisingly all of that culminates in me being very much into piss. Depending on how you go about it, it pushes every possible button. Humiliating, degrading, disgusting, dirty and objectifying.

Another possible angle is public play, I love being slutty and depraved, so who would have thought I do enjoy doing so while out in public. Forced exhibition is definitely on my list of things that need more attention. Maybe you'd make me wear some cute panties and a bra underneath (which I do enjoy wearing, not in a sissy-way but in a "I enjoy being cute and slutty for you"-way) and I have to undress for you while taking a night walk? Maybe you have other ideas?

Stuff I'm curious about:
Not a lot of with gear-oriented play, but given how much objectification can turn me on, I could see myself enjoying restraints or all sorts. Lets experiment!

Pain is not my favorite thing to play with, the furthest extent I'm willing to go for is (light) ballbusting, because in my limited experience the feeling that comes with the possibility of it happening is very hot, ngl. (The same applies to ruined orgasms, its not a turn on in itself, but knowing full well that you're in control and can do so, ooooh yes.) Post-orgasm torture/riding also does look quite hot, so I'd try it out once before deciding whether its for me c:

Anal. Hear me out, I've done anal before, I own toys, plugging up for someone is very welcome. But anal with someone else, be it with a strapon or other toys somehow hasn't happened yet. With the right person I'd try - but slowly. :)

Limits:

(extreme) pain, 24/7 / TPE, permanent forced appearance change, cigarettes, vomit, needles, blood, sounding, ageplay, sleep control

If you made it to the end of this and are still with me, you should probably consider hitting me up, just saying. c:

Kind Regards,
Yannik