Hello! :)

About me:

I’m a 25 year old trans woman (she/her or it/its). I’m polyamorous. I’ve been on hormones for like 6 years, and I have an androgynous-feminine physique. I have a pretty alt aesthetic, with tattoos, piercings, and colorful hair. Manic pixie dream girl vibes. e-girl adjacent. I have a computer-science degree but I have yet to get a job in tech. I’m also a musician and an artist and I’m always working on some sort of creative project and trying to improve myself.

Outside of vanilla-life, I identify as a service-sub, pup, doll, slave, and bimbo, among other things. Some kinks and fetishes I have are: hypnosis, bondage, chastity, latex, worship, humiliation, behavior modification, mdlg, [...] (these are abbreviated lists, meant to communicate a Vibe rather than a bingo-list of requirements/desires, and they do not constitute the important part of this post. I’m not looking for a kink dispenser, I’m looking for a connection.) I'd describe my experience level with kink as "intermediate" or "about as experienced/knowledgeable as you could expect someone of my age to be"

Who i’m looking for:

I’m looking for a real connection with someone who I can look up to. Someone who is confident and put-together and who excels in certain areas of their life. Maybe you’re the center of your social circles. Maybe you’re successful in your career. Maybe you have a very cultivated aesthetic or lifestyle. Maybe you’re really fit. Maybe you’re really knowledgeable and experienced in kink. Maybe you have some craft or passion that you’re accomplished in. Or maybe you’ve just done a lot of healing and personal growth, and you have that to be proud of. These are all examples of things that really make me want to submit to someone. They make it feel natural.

So, I’m looking for a dominant who can be a mentor, or a guide, or a role-model, and who I can adore and obey and put up on a pedestal. To be clear, I’m not expecting that you be perfect, or that you totally “fix” my life, but I do want you to be someone who I can learn from and grow with, and who I can be proud to serve and devote myself to.

As for what I hope our connection would look like: it depends! There is no upper limit; Ideally, this will lead to a full-blown D/s dynamic plus LTR, with high levels of power exchange and rules, protocols, etc. but I don’t want to set myself up for failure by saying that would be the Only Acceptable Result. Really. I'd just like to get to know you, and then go from there! Importantly, kink doesn’t Necessarily Have to be sexual for me, and I am open to something more casual, but what I’m imagining when I say that is more like a friendship (with benefits?) charged with the vibes I'm describing rather than NSA play.

Note about location: I’m mainly looking #online, but if you happen to be in #Austin #Texas, that's a fun bonus. I have a preference for those in similar time-zones, (and the wild hope that maybe I might relocate to you eventually) so, anywhere in the US/Canada is preferred.