i’m polyamorous and seeking only ENM partners. please do no message me if you are hoping for monogamy or have a partner currently who would feel betrayed by you seeking out another connection. thank you.

ok! now that i’ve gotten that out of the way, hello there! i am a switchy, pansexual, sapiosexual, kitchen witch in Brooklyn currently on my Domme shit. I describe myself as a slutty and stern mundane Mommy Domme. I’m very sex positive and generally gentle in my approach to domination. i do find that with certain partners i can lean a bit more toward the mean bully side, but only if there is a place where we converge on that in execution and enjoyment. i prefer to tease rather than degrade but am flexible and enjoy making fantasies come true 💫 good time to mention - aftercare is a must for me.

i believe in communication and will make you do paperwork to ensure that we are always on the same page. in my exploration of bdsm i have found that explicit discussion and clear parameters help to build trust and create the kind of environment that is necessary for us to feel safe enough to be unsafe together. i am team P.R.I.C.K. with a fair amount of experience in rope bondage, impact play, wax play, sensory deprivation, edging/orgasm control, and anal training. i am a big fan of toys, games, rules, punishments, rewards, and all things power exchange. 😈

i connect well with service subs, cucks/queans, those who don’t ascribe to gender norms, queers, and BIPOC. dynamics i am most interested in: Goddess/pet, Master/slave, Mommy/bb i am open to a fellow switch, brat, or subby service top. please NO “straight Dom” types.

outside of bdsm i spend a lot of time being creative: knitting/crocheting, cooking/baking, playing ukulele, and singing. i enjoy tv (comedies, dramas, documentaries, trashy reality love shows…) and movies (nothing Marvel, sorry!). I am always down to see a Broadway show, a concert, the ballet, or live comedy. I love to read, walk the Botanic Gardens, drink fancy coffees and teas, smoke cannabis and spend a cozy night in. i am a morning person. i am spiritual. i talk astrology, and have my yoga teacher certification.

I would prefer that you be over 30yo, living in NYC, ideally with the ability to host. physical attraction is a must so if you are not comfortable sharing a picture, unfortunately things likely won’t progress with us. i am 5’3, athletic with curves and short dark curly hair. there are some nsfw posts you can check on my page. i am both an exhibitionist and a voyeur so feel free to show off when replying to this ad 👀

i am looking for something ongoing and fairly consistent with the kind of pets/playthings that would find pleasure in:

• serving me through domestic and sexual acts • following rules • sharing intimate desires in detail • attending events together • public and group play • giving and receiving gifts • pushing boundaries • self exploration, growth and development • word play/dad jokes

i’ve gotten super lucky on reddit before so i’m sure this post will reach the right subs/switches. looking forward to hearing from you 🌸